江jiāng南nán地dì区qū，凡fán遭zāo逢féng重zhòng丧sàng的de人rén家jiā，如rú果guǒ是shì与yǔ他tā家jiā相xiāng认rèn识shí的de人rén，又yòu同tóng住zhù在zài一yī

个gè城chéng镇zhèn里lǐ，三sān天tiān之zhī内nèi不bù去qù吊diào丧sāng，丧sāng家jiā就jiù会huì与yǔ他tā断duàn绝jué交jiāo往wǎng。丧sāng家jiā的de人rén除chú掉diào丧sāng服fú，

与yǔ他tā在zài路lù上shàng相xiāng遇yù，也yě要yào避bì开kāi他tā，因yīn为wèi恨hèn他tā不bù怜lián恤xù自zì己jǐ。如rú果guǒ是shì另lìng有yǒu原yuán因yīn或huò道dào

路lù遥yáo远yuǎn而ér未wèi能néng前qián来lái吊diào丧sāng者zhě，可kě以yǐ写xiě信xìn来lái表biǎo示shì慰wèi问wèn；不bù来lái信xìn的de，丧sāng家jiā也yě会huì一yī样yàng

对duì待dài他tā。北běi方fāng的de风fēng俗sú则zé不bú是shì这zhè样yàng。江jiāng南nán地dì区qū凡fán来lái吊diào丧sāng者zhě，除chú了le主zhǔ人rén之zhī外wài，对duì

不bù认rèn识shí的de人rén就jiù不bù握wò手shǒu；如rú果guǒ只zhǐ认rèn识shí披pī戴dài较jiào轻qīng丧sāng服fú的de人rén而ér不bù认rèn识shí主zhǔ人rén，就jiù不bú到dào

灵líng堂táng去qù吊diào丧sāng，改gǎi天tiān准zhǔn备bèi好hǎo名míng刺cì再zài上shàng他tā家jiā去qù表biǎo示shì慰wèi问wèn。